Big girls you are beautiful

Bigger women are more desirable, according to American research. 

According to a recent research from “New Scientist” of the U.S. the future women will be plump, fertile and with smaller stature. All the men have deepest desires in the consummation of sexual intercourse with women more chunky, hot and bulky. The problem is that not everybody accepts it. Also because this desire is of an unconscious order because there is a prerogative of the society in Brazil that this is ugly, wrong, etc… 

Many high-end brands make their molds without thinking of larger mannequins fashion dictating who “may or may not” use certain brands, it is a nonsense and gets to be an incentive to prejudice, contrary to North American culture, where there is no such kind of attitude. Says the old Arab proverb: "Women have to fill in the bed, leaving the happy man, because who like bones are dogs". 

Unconscious desire 

The issue of unconscious desire for a particular biotype is very strong, but it is difficult to manage this desire for many reasons: shame, influence of others, hints from friends or family etc... 

The problem is that the more the person runs away from their likes the more she will have psychological problems, by generating a series of emotional conflicts disturbing the emotional conflicts and being away from your real goal. It can even direct the person to have a totally opposite relationship that he desire and likes. That is, instead of assuming the first taste for plump and "be happy" the person assumes a relationship with the slender woman preferring to show this woman off at the malls, for example. But his sexual energy is set entirely in the "chubby", creating frustration, because at the time of bed it’s the ‘chubby’ he wants. This mechanism of ego defence is called reaction formation: when a person tends to be with someone completely opposite of his real desire and biotype. 

Consequence of not assuming the desire 

Besides the reaction formation, which already leads the man to choose another woman, the ego develops another type of defense mechanism, called Compensation: where the man will always seek sexual satisfaction with a woman that gives him pleasure even as if temporary and casual. So the first question that comes up is the negative betrayal: he can have the skinny, but will always cheat with the chubby, because if they not marry their biotype they will have no pleasure, they will not gain physical and sexual health, they won’t improve their psychological condition, they will be always cheating and having an unreal and unhealthy life with conflict in every way, then it will compensate for the lack of pleasure that you need with the chubby, but will generate conflict, unrest and unhappiness, because when he gets home he will find the woman opposed to their dreams, and have produced misery for the many psychological manifestations produced by his unconscious. 

Assuming the desire 

When assuming their unconscious desire the man will have a peaceful life and consequently his wife too, because she will feel touched and loved feeling pleasure in her own body without fault and dismissing both neuroses and hypochondria and above all daily stress present in people who fight against their taste and desire. 

The pudgy are healthier, unlike the “Anas”, which are anorexic and have deficiency in their metabolism, emotional, psychological and physical. The “bigger women” have more health and are more likely to get pregnant and know how to give themselves more in bed, the ease of being more fertile is greater, since fertility means health, and the woman to get pregnant has to be good otherwise the psychological will have the sufficient power to stop pregnancy. 

Women with sinuous curves and plump have long been the object of desire of all men. Besides they are very beautiful, have seductive smiles and know how to walk perfectly showing off their curves, and are overly sensitive and have the gift of tenderness, quite different from the "Anas" (anorexics) who doesn’t have the same charm. 

The greatest representative of plump and tasty can be given by the stunning Marilyn Monroe, not even the most powerful man on the planet at the time, President John Kennedy resisted. 

Alexander Bez is a psychologist who specializes in Anxiety and Panic Disorder by the University of California - UCLA, Relationships and the University of Miami, Florida.

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