segunda-feira, 13 de dezembro de 2010

Big girls you are beautiful

Bigger women are more desirable, according to American research. 



According to a recent research from “New Scientist” of the U.S. the future women will be plump, fertile and with smaller stature. All the men have deepest desires in the consummation of sexual intercourse with women more chunky, hot and bulky. The problem is that not everybody accepts it. Also because this desire is of an unconscious order because there is a prerogative of the society in Brazil that this is ugly, wrong, etc… 

Many high-end brands make their molds without thinking of larger mannequins fashion dictating who “may or may not” use certain brands, it is a nonsense and gets to be an incentive to prejudice, contrary to North American culture, where there is no such kind of attitude. Says the old Arab proverb: "Women have to fill in the bed, leaving the happy man, because who like bones are dogs". 

Unconscious desire 

The issue of unconscious desire for a particular biotype is very strong, but it is difficult to manage this desire for many reasons: shame, influence of others, hints from friends or family etc... 

The problem is that the more the person runs away from their likes the more she will have psychological problems, by generating a series of emotional conflicts disturbing the emotional conflicts and being away from your real goal. It can even direct the person to have a totally opposite relationship that he desire and likes. That is, instead of assuming the first taste for plump and "be happy" the person assumes a relationship with the slender woman preferring to show this woman off at the malls, for example. But his sexual energy is set entirely in the "chubby", creating frustration, because at the time of bed it’s the ‘chubby’ he wants. This mechanism of ego defence is called reaction formation: when a person tends to be with someone completely opposite of his real desire and biotype. 

Consequence of not assuming the desire 

Besides the reaction formation, which already leads the man to choose another woman, the ego develops another type of defense mechanism, called Compensation: where the man will always seek sexual satisfaction with a woman that gives him pleasure even as if temporary and casual. So the first question that comes up is the negative betrayal: he can have the skinny, but will always cheat with the chubby, because if they not marry their biotype they will have no pleasure, they will not gain physical and sexual health, they won’t improve their psychological condition, they will be always cheating and having an unreal and unhealthy life with conflict in every way, then it will compensate for the lack of pleasure that you need with the chubby, but will generate conflict, unrest and unhappiness, because when he gets home he will find the woman opposed to their dreams, and have produced misery for the many psychological manifestations produced by his unconscious. 

Assuming the desire 

When assuming their unconscious desire the man will have a peaceful life and consequently his wife too, because she will feel touched and loved feeling pleasure in her own body without fault and dismissing both neuroses and hypochondria and above all daily stress present in people who fight against their taste and desire. 

The pudgy are healthier, unlike the “Anas”, which are anorexic and have deficiency in their metabolism, emotional, psychological and physical. The “bigger women” have more health and are more likely to get pregnant and know how to give themselves more in bed, the ease of being more fertile is greater, since fertility means health, and the woman to get pregnant has to be good otherwise the psychological will have the sufficient power to stop pregnancy. 

Women with sinuous curves and plump have long been the object of desire of all men. Besides they are very beautiful, have seductive smiles and know how to walk perfectly showing off their curves, and are overly sensitive and have the gift of tenderness, quite different from the "Anas" (anorexics) who doesn’t have the same charm. 

The greatest representative of plump and tasty can be given by the stunning Marilyn Monroe, not even the most powerful man on the planet at the time, President John Kennedy resisted. 

Alexander Bez is a psychologist who specializes in Anxiety and Panic Disorder by the University of California - UCLA, Relationships and the University of Miami, Florida.


quinta-feira, 20 de maio de 2010

Formando Burros!!!

Estou chateada com uma coisa que aconteceu na faculdade essa semana. Não entendo a atitude de algumas pessoas, sério, acho que a maioria dos meus colegas de classe são uns bandos de cagões, me desculpe por usar essa palavra, mas não vejo outra que se encaixe melhor.

A história é a seguinte, temos uma professora de Literatura Brasileira que não vem atendendo aos requisitos que a grade de ensino propõe. Já perdemos duas aulas da mesma no primeiro semestre desse ano, não parece muito falando assim, mas se você olhar de um outro ângulo vai perceber que qualquer meia hora perdida numa sala de aula de faculdade faz toda uma diferença depois, na hora de uma prova, por exemplo. Enfim, ela tem faltado e os dias em que ela deu aula foi como se nada tivesse acontecido, claro que não posso dizer que não aprendi nada, até que aprendi um pouco sobre sexo.


A coordenadora do nosso curso recebeu reclamações sobre nossa sala através de dois professores nossos, que, compreensivamente foram reclamar com a coordenada sobre o comportamento de alguns elementos da sala. Uma vergonha total!!! Nossa sala adotou o péssimo hábito de fazer um barulhinho irritante de pessoa quando está incomodada com algo que a atrapalhou enquanto a mesma estava no meio de uma ação, no começo era engraçado até, uma brincadeirinha besta para descontrair o ambiente, normal. Mas chegou no ponto de esse barulhinho irritante também atrapalhar a aula, mas na sala ‘neguinho’ não se toca, teve um professor que se sentiu ofendido e desrespeitado por nós, consequentemente, não teve outro jeito, foram na direção.

Bom, não quero mudar o rumo da história, mas queria deixá-los a par de como toda a encrenca começou. Voltando sobre a coordenadora do curso, após receber essas reclamações de dois professores, que não citarei nomes, pois, mesmo que esse blog não vá ser lido depois por pessoas da faculdade, não interessa citar nomes, o importante é que nós, alunos, sabemos quem são. Enfim, a coordenadora do curso foi à nossa sala para saber o que estava acontecendo, o porquê das reclamações de uma sala tão querida, como ela mesma disse. O assunto foi se desenrolando até chegarmos nessa queixa contra a professora de Literatura Brasileira, falaram mal, dos prejuízos sofridos por nós, do nosso não aprendizado adquirido na matéria... E por aí vai. A coordenadora coletou todas as nossas reclamações e disse que tentaria resolver esse assunto, achávamos que ela iria de imediato conversar com a professora em questão, pra ver o que está acontecendo, se ela não está feliz com a sala e blá blá blá.
 É claro que isso ficou somente nas palavras, afinal, é final de semestre, já perdemos muitas coisas, as provas estão chegando, não carece criar mais esse problema, então, o que se tentou fazer foi arrumar as coisas para o próximo semestre, a coordenadora nos pediu que assinássemos uma lista, havia duas na verdade, uma com assinaturas para a permanência da professora e, a outra com assinaturas para a saída da professora. É onde a cagança começa, alunos que são alunos são curiosos, perguntaram quais as outras opções de professores que teríamos para a substituição dessa professora, souberam dar somente um nome, o de um professor que tivemos no 1º semestre.

[COMENTÁRIO]
Nossa sala tem uns alunos do 2º semestre, que entraram no semestre seguinte após o curso ter se iniciado. Em conseqüência, os mesmos não conhecem esse professor em questão.
[FIM COMENTÁRIO]

Ao ser levantada a hipótese desse professor ser o primeiro da lista para substituição dessa professora, uma colega de classe com intuito de informar, ou melhor, desinformar os alunos do segundo semestre quanto à esse professor, ela disse coisas que não são, realmente, do jeito que foi compreendido por nós. Se eu não conhecesse esse professor, ficaria com medo dele! Ela disse que ele é um ótimo professor, ensina bem... MAS é arrogante, nos chamavam de burros, nos fazia sentirmos inferiores e que ela tinha medo do que ele poderia fazer com a gente. ORA, quando ela disse que ele é um ÓTIMO professor, ensina BEM não valeu de nada? As pessoas só ouviram quando ela disse que ele era arrogante? Entendo que ele não era um professor fácil, ele era exigente, pegava no pé, nos mandavam pesquisar sobre a matéria que ele dava para não ficarmos apegados somente com o que ele dizia em classe. Quanto ao fato dele nos fazer sentirmos inferiores, isso depende da sensibilidade da pessoa, do modo como ela vê e sente as coisas. Quando ela fala isso, tenho certeza que ela se referia sobre quando ele citava algum livro de literatura em sala, e não sabíamos nem que livro era aquele, ele ficava chateado, falava que estávamos fazendo Letras, tem que ler literatura tem que saber essas coisas. Não acho que isso seja motivo para nos sentirmos inferiores e sim vergonha! Ele estava certo, sempre esteve certo! Como pode pessoas cursando Letras não saber nada sobre livros como Hamlet, A Moreninha... Ele ficava chateado sim, mas nunca nos fez sentir que éramos burros. Ele não aceitava o entra e sai em sala de aula, não admitia atraso de muito tempo, isso não é o perfil de uma pessoa arrogante, e sim de uma pessoa que gosta das coisas certas, direitas, do jeito que elas têm que ser.
Agora me pergunto, como que os alunos, os mesmos que reclamavam do modo da professora de Literatura Brasileira lecionar, assinaram para que ela continuasse como nossa professora por medo do que o esse professor poderia nos fazer? Acho que todos são egoístas, pensam somente no próprio umbigo, e pior TÊM MEDO DE APRENDER!!! Trocaram um semestre no qual adquiriríamos conhecimento por um semestre vago, oco e perdido. Estamos pagando para aprender em branco, para aprender com aulas vagas...

Olha os futuros professores e tradutores desse país *roll eyes*


O único motivo pelo qual não fiquei mais decepcionada com isso é que não seguirei carreira, se eu não gostasse tanto do Português, desistiria do curso, mas, não sacrificarei tudo que passei para chegar até aqui. Se querem continuar com professora topeira, continuem! Se querem fechar os olhos para o que é bom e nos favorece, fechem! Pois todos nossos atos têm consequências no futuro.


R E A D       I N       E N G L I S H 



I'm upset about something that happened this week in college. I do not understand the attitude of some people, seriously, I think most of my classmates are a flock of shysters, I'm sorry for using that word, but I don’t see another one that fits better. 
The story is the following, we have a professor of Brazilian Literature that has not been taking on the requirements that the grade education proposed. We have already lost two classes of this professor in the first half of this year, does not seem much, but if you look from another angle you will realise that any half hours lost in a college class makes all the difference when you’re doing an exam , for example. Anyway, she has missed two classes and the days when she gave lessons was as if nothing had happened, of course I can not say I learned nothing, I’ve learned a little about sex. 
The coordinator of our course has received complaints about our class by another two professors of us, who understandably complained to the coordinater about the behavior of some people of the our class. A total shame! Our class took a nasty habit of making an annoying beeping when a person take the class attention by coming in and out the classroom, in the beginning it was funny, a little joke beast to relax the area , normal. But arrived at the point of this annoying beeping also disrupt the classroom, but some people has no respect, we had a teacher who felt offended and disrespected by us, therefore, had no other way, he went to the principal’s office. 
Well, do not want to change the course of this story, but I wanted to make you aware of how all the trouble began. Getting back on to our course coordinator, after receiving these complaints from two professors who I will not cite names, because, even though this blog will not be read by people of the college, no matter to name names, it is important that we, students know who they are. Finally, the course coordinator came to our room to see what was happening, why the complaints of a room so dear class, as she Said herself. The matter was unfolding until we get this complaint against the professor of Brazilian Literature, the students spoke evil of losses incurred by us, and about our not experience gained in this subject ... And so on. The coordinator collected all our complaints and said she would try to resolve this issue, we thought she would immediately talk to that professor, to see what was happening, if she is not happy with the class and blah blah blah. 
Of course it was only words, after all, we’re in the end of the semester, we have already lost many things, the tests are coming,  there had no need to create this new problem , so what we tried to do was to fix things for next semester, the coordinator asked us to sign a list, there were two actually, one with signatures to the permanence of the professor and the other signatures to the output of the professor. It's where the shit begins, students are students  and they were curious about who would replace that teacher, they gave just only one name, a professor we had in the first semester. 

[COMMENT]
Our class (3rd semester) is together with the 2nd semester, which entered the following semester after the course has begun. As a result, they did not know this professor in question.
[END COMMENT] 

When the Idea of this professor was hypothesized, that this professor was the first on the list to replace the Brazilian Literature professor, a classmate with the purpose of informing, or rather misinform the students who didn’t know about this second professor, she said things that are not really the way that was understood by us. If I did not know this professor, I would be afraid of him! She said he is a great teacher, teach well ... BUT is arrogant and has called us stupid once and made us feel inferior and that she was afraid of what he could do with us. COME ON, when she said he is a GREAT teacher and teach WELL do not worth anything? People only listened when she said he was arrogant? I understand that he was not an easy teacher, he was demanding, he took on foot,  he used to say to us to go in search warrant on the subject that he taught us, to us not get attached only to what he said in class. As for whether it make us feel inferior, it depends on the sensitivity of the person, the way she sees and feels things. When this classmate spoke that, I'm sure she was referring to when he cited a book of literature in the classroom, and we didn’t even know that book so he used to be upset about that, that what we were studying we must had to know those books, you have to read literature have to know these things .  I don’t think that's a reason to feel inferior, but shame! He was right, he was always right! How can people be attending Language Course without knowing a thing about books such as Hamlet, A Moreninha ... He was upset, yes, but never made us feel that we were stupid. He did not accept the incoming and outgoing in the classroom, did not admit delays of long term, this is not the profile of an arrogant person, but a person who likes the right things the way they have to be.

Now I wonder, as students, those who complained about the way the professor teach Brazilian Literature, signed for her to continue as our teacher for fear of what this other teacher might do to us. I think everyone is selfish, thinking only in their own self, and worse HAVE FEAR TO LEARN! They exchanged a semester in which knowledge would be adquired for a half vacant, hollow and lost semester with the same professor. We are paying for learning in white, to learn lessons vacancies ... 

Look at the future teachers and translators of our country * roll eyes * 

The only reason I have not been more and more disappointed with this  is because I don’t intend to follow this career, if I did not like much of the Portuguese, I’d give up the course, but I will not sacrifice everything I’ve been through to get in here. If they want to continue with that mole teacher, let them continue! If they want to close their eyes to what is good and favors us, let them close! For all our actions have consequences in the future.




Bjos

Mika

sexta-feira, 14 de maio de 2010

Move to the movies

I don't know... do you know when you have that feeling that something ain't right? well... I don't know


I've been thinking lately about the things that have been happening to me, too many changes in my life in such a short period of time is like life moving at the speed of light and I can't follow this velocity and at the same time when I'm thinking something is getting back to normal it has already changed again...weird, very weird. And I'm sounding like an emo talking like that haha no, I'm not emo, I'm not sad right now I'm just thoughful today, visibly not inspired to write coz I'm being redundant in here, I'm sounding like a cd that is repeated over and over again.


C H A N G I N G    S U B J E C T 


I was thinking about going to the cinema on the weekend because I'm desperated to see The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus, seems like a GREAT movie, I read that this was the last movie Heath Ledger did as he died he so the director Terry Gilliam had a fantastic idea of instead picking up just one new actor to take Heath Ledger place he decided to pick up three more WONDERFUL men, they are: Johnny Depp, Jude Law and Colin Farrel. Now you understand why this movie MUST be seen!!! I guess that after Alice in Wonderland this is the movie I've been very excited about and hopefully I'm gonna have a free time to watch it *cross-finger*
Talking about Alice in Wonderland, WHAT A WONDERFUL MOVIE, I would run out of good adjectives if I was going to describe what I thought about this movie, it's just perfect, Tim Burton is a genius!!! James Cameron who? I am suspect to talk about Tim Burton because to me he is the best director EVER. His first movie I remember of is Beetle Juice, very funny movie and with this movie you could see Tim Burton's type , what kind of movie he would love to do... then he came up with Edward Scissorhands which is PERFECT too... and thanks God he liked Johnny Depp because both makes a wonderful couple lol. Then he invited Depp again to join him in the Charlie and the Chocolate Factory movie, this movie is very cute, love it DEPP IS A HELL OF AN ACTOR!!! Tim Burton so liked him AGAIN that ended up offering him another role in a different movie, well, I wouldn't say that was a 'role' though the cartoon was very much like Depp... that was inspired on him and also Depp gave the cartoon his voice so yes we can consider that Depp had a role in the movie, and which movie am I talking about??? it's Corpse Bride, this movie is really good. Then we have Depp again in Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street... I can't even find words to describe this musical, it's just PERFECT, I'm not so into musical but this one makes you wanna watch it until the end, the story is too sad but the whole context... wonderful!!! and finally we have Alice in Wonderland another outstanding movie by Tim Burton, the only thing I have to say about it is: GO AND WATCH IT!!!


Well... I believe that I'm through by now, I wasn't even going to talk about movie in here but suddenly I thought this was a good idea so... until the next time...whoever that read this post.


Cheers!